When We Say "Character", What
Do We Mean?
- William Maloney, Sr.
So much is now questioned about the CHARACTER of
an individual. This has ranged from the
character of the President, to someone running
for public office and all the way to the
character
of someone being hired. But, what is it that
CHARACTER means?
Our approach to explaining CHARACTER is to break
it down to definable qualities. You’ll see from
our thinking styles are that we seem to have
gotten stuck on the letter "C".
These are the "C’s" of CHARACTER from our points
of view. So when
your hear someone refer to
another’s CHARACTER – ask them to
give you their definition. If they don’t have
one, share
these qualities to determine if
they demonstrate the following:
Convictions
– are values and beliefs that we have adopted
and choose to live by. If we honorably
live by our convictions we will have grounded
principles to deal with our life’s dilemmas. If
we don’t
stand for something – we’ll fall for everything.
Courage
– is the degree of personal strength we have to
live to the extent of our convictions. We
should always expect to have our convictions
tested. That’s just reality. Courage is the
inner quality
to overcome our fears in pursuit of our
convictions even if it puts us in harms way.
Confidence
– is our ability to conduct ourselves in both
familiar and unfamiliar situations assuredly.
Presenting our qualities of self-regard,
self-esteem and inner trust in our dealing with
others.
Capabilities
– are our skills and talents. Some of these come
from nature and some are nurtured.
The challenge we must understand is that our
current skills and talents may not be enough to
deal
with future problems. We must continue to
develop our capabilities to challenge ourselves
to grow
and change.
Commitment
–
is the promise we make to stay true to
ourselves, to stay focused on our goals and
determination to achieve results. Commitment is
the key ingredient to doing an outstanding job.
Civility
–
is the manner in which we treat and deal with
others. It’ the demonstration of honor and
respect for those we share even the briefest
moment on time.
Contentment
– is being respectful and at peace with what we
have accomplished and achieved.
Be
satisfied but not undeterred from further
growth.
Other words of Character:
Concern, Compassion, Creativity, Collaboration,
Consistency...
So when your
hear someone refer to another’s CHARACTER –
ask
them to give you their
definition.
If they don’t have one, share these
qualities.
These are my thoughts; you may have your own, if
so give me your thoughts.
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Bill
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